Stay Calm

A house full of friends and family joining in a celebration of a milestone in your life. Joyous and stressful at the same time.

Family and friends on vacation, beautiful, exciting, all the makings of full concierge service, your job,  enjoy !

Secluded Jacuzzi, champagne, close friends, family, dream moments come true.


Compromise..... that is what all this require. Which is a good thing or there could be fights that outlive your generation within your families.  Some situations though ought not to include compromises with others, just one other, who is significant to you.

It is best to remember often that today is your best day, because it is your choice what to think on, regardless, and to be present in the now is the most calming effect.
Stress, remember is from remembering with filters a past moment or concerning yourself with a future that has not arrived yet. Whether you are willing to come to terms with it or not, there is nothing you can do to change the past, but 'now' you will effect the future with what you say or do.

Stay calm and remain present!.  So when Aunt whomever has said something for the 100th time it is your first, and simply enjoy the moment. If a bit of sweet something or a beverage assists with this pleasure, partake.

The busier a time represents itself, such a Holiday, it is beneficial to simplify your life and resist the expectations that others or yourself put upon you. What is to be done is what has been done and accept that, so if you have managed to arrive at a table feast of Thanksgiving with no stuffing, it is just an added elegance of simplicity and more room for what ever has made it to the table instead.

This holiday, what I have set aside is one evening for baking and the day itself for preparing and whatever makes it to the table is what is supposed to and nothing more. I am thankful for this release and permission to simply enjoy myself on this day with those I love. I wish you all the same so that you may indulge this day with love and acceptance of yourself, others you share your life with and the very day itself.

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